What has been a defining moment in your leadership journey, and how did it shape you?
A truly defining moment in my leadership journey occurred when I was in my late 20s. I was the Executive Director of the Northern Colorado AIDS Project at the time. The then mayor of Fort Collins nominated me for a national award recognizing leaders under the age of 30. Her words have stuck with me through all of my years in leadership roles. As I was preparing for the in-person interview she reminded me to be John Farnam. That is who they want to know; nothing more, nothing less. As a result, if I find myself feeling rudderless, I hear her words echo through my head and heart, just be John Farnam. That clarity immediately helps me adjust to face the challenge or opportunity head on.
How did your Denver Metro Chamber Leadership Foundation experience shift your perspective on leadership and prepare you to face the challenges that come with leading?
My experience with the Denver Metro Chamber Leadership Foundation illuminated several strategies for my leadership style. Be prepared. I have recently been involved with some facilitated sessions where the leader wasn't prepared, and it was so painful. If I am leading my team, I owe them an A+ version of myself. This allows me to work from a place of strength and certainty that they deserve in their leader. Finally, have fun. Connect in an authentic, vulnerable and empathic manner. When you share your true self with those around you, you will be met with the same.
What’s a lesson you’ve learned as a leader that you wish more people talked about openly?
I am a leader, not a boss. I share this with my team and live into that regularly. A leader shines a light on what is possible for his or her team. That is what I do, not only in my work but also in my community. We are all stronger together and we all bring unique skills and gifts into every situation we find ourselves in. Recognizing that and holding space for all to be the best version of self is one of the greatest gifts I’ve received over the years and share freely.
How do you see civic and business leadership evolving in Denver—and what gives you hope about the future?
We are fortunate to live in Colorado where civic activity is encouraged and relatively easy to participate in. The intersection of civic and business leadership in our city is on display constantly. This deep integration of business acumen and civic commitment translates directly into systemic and lasting community impact. Our leaders in industry are also leaders in our communities, and it is so heartening to see. My hope is we see this level of engagement in industry and in the fabric of our community deepen with the next generation of leaders.
If you could give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?
Do not hold back on attempting something that seems impossible. The fear of failure is strong, and it must be overcome by trying. If you make a misstep, you at least took a step. Pivot and try again.
